My husband has been taking dirty pictures and I worry he is having an affair

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER finding a photo of a penis on my husband’s phone, I don’t know whether it means he’s gay or if he’s been sending it to other women.

I’m 36 and my husband’s three years older.

We’ve been together for ten years and have two daughters aged eight and six.

It isn’t the first time he’s had pictures like this, but the last time I discovered one, I forgave him.

I want to confront him because I want answers.

I have a lot to lose, but the way I am feeling right now I wish I had the strength to throw him out.

I don’t want to break up our family, but I don’t understand why he would do this.

I’m not sure what to do.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Whether he is gay or straight, he’s betrayed your trust again but playing detective rarely helps save a marriage.

Tell your husband what you’ve found. Say he owes it to you to be honest.

If he’s sexting, it’s a form of cheating.

He’d be horrified if you did it, and he knows that.

Tell him he has to own how much he’s hurt you and be truly sorry.

My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over it? will help.

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